This is what I've heard from a group of girls here in our community, our relationship is just a "PSEUDO RELATIONSHIP". WHAT???? This is the first time I encounter such WORD.
A relationship that almost like a relationship, but not quite. Got me? Hahahahaha.....
Okay let us define PSEUDO here, a GREEK WORD means falsehood, almost, approaching, or trying to be..it is just like a "WE'RE JUST FRIENDS SYNDROME". As in NO EXPECTATIONS, NO DISAPPOINTMENT.
This has become a trend here in our society, I've heard this kind of relationship with so many actresses and actors. And now heard it here just in front of me.
You can get upset, hurt or cry in pain but can't deliberately burst it into public. You tend to hide it and concealed it.
In a PSEUDO RELATIONSHIP there is NO SUCH a thing a word "US" or "WE". There is love because of "YOU" and "ME"...a great LOVE that binds two people but NO LABEL, NO GUARANTEES or NO FUTURE PLAN at all. Even if you're in pain you cannot complain because there is no one to hear your complaints.
A relationship that almost like a relationship, but not quite. Got me? Hahahahaha.....
Okay let us define PSEUDO here, a GREEK WORD means falsehood, almost, approaching, or trying to be..it is just like a "WE'RE JUST FRIENDS SYNDROME". As in NO EXPECTATIONS, NO DISAPPOINTMENT.
This has become a trend here in our society, I've heard this kind of relationship with so many actresses and actors. And now heard it here just in front of me.
You can get upset, hurt or cry in pain but can't deliberately burst it into public. You tend to hide it and concealed it.
In a PSEUDO RELATIONSHIP there is NO SUCH a thing a word "US" or "WE". There is love because of "YOU" and "ME"...a great LOVE that binds two people but NO LABEL, NO GUARANTEES or NO FUTURE PLAN at all. Even if you're in pain you cannot complain because there is no one to hear your complaints.
So unfair!!!! Don't like this kind of a relationship. But I believe with the saying that...
Do whatever you want in your life as long as you're HAPPY and SATISFIED.
That's almost like an open relationship where there's no commitment at all which is unfair. I wouldn't settle for anything like that :(
ReplyDeleteIt's a complicated world but a pseudo relationship is not the safest of a relationship as it's bound to end in a disappointment.
ReplyDeleteIt is unfair since you are committing your time, effort, feelings and emotions to the relationship - which is not really! Lol!
ReplyDeleteInteresting thought and concept!
ReplyDeletei am sure those in teens pa actually relates to this kind of thing. though i am in some point hearing my frend that they are in this kind of relationship hitting the not so good. ehhee
ReplyDeleteI don't ever want to be in a pseudo relationship! It's the worst thing that could happen to me. Well, at one point it almost did, good thing we're so open to each other that we call it off before it even happens. :)
ReplyDeletewow! I got inspired to do an article about pseudo-relationship
ReplyDeleteAko, never. It has always been yes or no in my case. It's much simpler that way. :)
ReplyDeleteI DO NOT know if i have this.. or we are just so close to each other. yay! haha
ReplyDeleteDo whatever you want in your life as long as you're HAPPY and SATISFIED.
ReplyDeleteHalf-true and half-false. One has to put emphasis on doing the "right' thing to make this statement TRUE.
Love is fair, yan ang pinaghahawakan ko.
honestly I don't want this kind of relationship
ReplyDeleteWow, I didn't know that such kind of relationship do exist. I won't be surprised if Facebook will add this at their list along with single, married and complicated hehe.
ReplyDeleteI don't like this kind of relationship too. It's like the famous friends with benefits but no exclusivity.
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